See Why A Lady Should Never Record Séxual Escapadés With Her Boyfriend

When people claim to be in love they do all sorts of crazy stuffs but, more often than not, those acts have a way of coming back to hunt them. Here in Nigeria, cases of crazy guys posting unclád photos of their ex-lovers and girlfriends on the internet is almost a weekly occurrence.

However, the sad case of reality TV star, Kim Kardiashian and her ex Ray J is the focus here. Because the guy recorded a tapé of them making love together, with her consent, he is now using it against her in almost any and everything he does. See his latest video below...
He used a Kim K look alike in the video just to prove that "He Hit It First"!

Why I Love Nigerian Men – Ex-BBA Star, Vimbai Mutinhiri

Vimbai Mutinhiri, born and raised in Zimbabwe, a graduate of politics, philosophy and economics, was one of the housemates on the 6th edition of the Big Brother Africa game-show in 2011, which had Karen Igho as winner. Recently, the pretty entertainer copped a job as co-host of the 1st edition of Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards, alongside IK Osakioduwa, in Lagos, Nigeria.

In this interview she expressed her thoughts about Nigeria and a couple of projects to be expected from her soon.

How would you describe yourself as a person and not the public figure?

Well, I am a very quiet and reserved person. I spend a lot of time at home with my DVDs and I’m crazy about good jazz music. I’m simple, loving, never take any moment for granted and always give everything my best.

What was life before Big Brother Africa (BBA) 6 like?

Life before Big Brother Africa was normal, I guess. I had just graduated from the university, started modelling and was trying to carve out a career in entertainment for myself before the opportunity came. I was just a normal young lady with big dreams.

What were your experiences in the BBA house?

Experiences in the Big Brother Africa House changed my life in so many ways. It was a unique experience living with people from different parts of the continent. I met new people, learnt new cultures, but most importantly I learnt a lot about myself. Basically, I could say I found myself, because there was so much pressure making it necessary that you defined yourself, in order to be noticed in the crowd.

How did you come about the AMVCA job and what was your reaction on getting it?

Honestly, I just received an email one day telling me that I had been chosen to host the event with IK. It was just before my birthday, so it was the perfect birthday present, and a wonderful blessing. I remained surprised until the very moment the show started.

What was it like co-hosting the AMVCAs with IK Osakioduwa?

It was a great because IK is so experienced in the industry, making it a great challenge to step up to his level and complement him on the stage. I learned a lot and I grew so much and he made that happen by making it easy and fun to handle. I’m glad I got to share the experience with him.

What are your views on Nigeria as a country and its citizens?

Nigeria is one of the warmest nations I have ever visited in my life. The people are unique and I love their strong personalities. With every visit to Nigeria, I learn why Nigerians are some of the most successful people in the world.

What do you love most about Nigeria?

I thoroughly enjoy the Lagos nightlife, and of course the delicious food. I love suya and some great seafood dishes also.

Would you marry a Nigerian, if possible?

Certainly, Nigerian men are fine gentlemen.

Are you in any intimate relationship currently?

No, I am currently single.

Describe your dream man?

My dream man is caring, loving, patient with me even when I get dramatic and hyperactive. He should be able to encourage me when I am down and inspire me to grow. My dream man is the man who will always bring out the best in me and spoil me rotten, of course.

How do you balance relationship and work?

I think that everything has its season. When I step into a relationship, my man will respect the demands of the industry that I have chosen. Of course, a successful relationship is built on support and compromise, so I will always make sure that my man has his rightful place in my life.

Do you have religious backing in your career?

Nothing is possible without the hand of the almighty, so I commit every single thing in my life to him every morning when I open my eyes. I believe that I have only travelled this far in my career because God’s grace and favour are over me. Without his hand, I would be nothing and nobody.

Give me an inspirational quote that appeals to you and tell me why?

His grace is enough for me. That appeals to me the most because it is the testimony of my life.

Why House Maids Takes Over Their Madam's Bed?

Dear Women!

Have you ever asked yourself why husbands are sleeping with maids?

Well my findings revealed that maids are doing wives' duties.

Most wives are now full time facebookers, bb users,whatsapp etc chatting 24/7 at the expense of their homes.

Even when their husbands return from work, they won't welcome them with love and husbands that don't want argument, will go straight to the kitchen to get pure water to cool down.

Unfortunately maids whose 'oranges' are intact not floppy like wives will welcome your husbands.

At weekends, you don't stay home to cook special meals, you leave your maids to to do the task and where are you? Partying!

Don't you know these maids have needs as well and they have automatic promotion if your husbands should have s^x with them so pls dear women stop allowing maids to perform your duties.

Don't start crying when it happens because you pushed him to do what he never wanted to do.I know you may be busy, but if the Maid cooks food, be the one to serve that food to your husband, welcome him always when he's from work, be the one to give him water to take a shower,and never let your House Maid enter ur Bed room to clean there!

We are not saying this is the sole cause, but we do know that it is one of the causes why most men use to sleep with maid.

Could These Be True About Ibadan Girls?

1. It is only in an IBADAN Fast Food that you ll seee "Meatpie N120"... "Meatpie (with Gen) N1500

2.Ibadan People will have an accident, stand up, curse the driver, then fall down and die
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3. Ibadan girls can still ask someone in a BBM group "are you on BBM"

4.BREAKING NEWS: KFC closes all branches in Ibadan.. Report says people just come in, take pictures and leave

5.A Typical Ibadan Man sprays all his Money at a Party and Treks home

6.IBADAN Girls still think ipad is a PAD used to stop Ménstrual Flow

7. Ibadan Girls know more INCANTATIONS than BIBLE VERSES

8.The World Can not End Tomorrow Cos ibadan girls still use spoon to drink viju milk

Am I wrong people?

Stop Harassing My Former Ministers And Probe Me Instead, Obasanjo Dares Jonathan

Ex-President Chief Olusegun Obasanjo yesterday berated President Goodluck Jonathan’s administration for harassing cabinet members under his administration insisting that if anyone was to be blamed for any lapses, he should be held responsible as he was ‘the one in charge.’

Obasanjo said this at the 50th birthday thanksgiving service held at the Redeemed Christian Church of God in honour of former Minister of Education, Oby Ezekwesili, in Abuja.
Ezekwesili served as minister of solid minerals development and later education during the Obasanjo administration.

Obasanjo declared that he was sure Ezekwesili would emerge unscathed because of her integrity and commitment to public service.

He said that “actually those who wanted to probe you (Ezekwesili), you should have asked them to (come to me) because if they are honest probers they would find out that government of Nigeria should give you money for what you have done for this country without stealing money.

“I have always said this, whatever you want to blame in my government, blame me, don’t blame any of those people who assisted me. If there is any credit to dispense, we share it. But for anything you want to say is wrong, I was the one in charge and I was in charge,” Obasanjo said.

The former President also described as ‘chop chop’ the proposed establishment of an agency that will monitor oil pipelines across the country.

“This morning, I was travelling from Abeokuta, I was listening to radio, I heard that they said that they are going to set up an agency for pipeline protection. Now, what are the police there for? What are all the security agencies that we have doing? This is another chop chop,” he said.

“I just hope that we will get it right. We have no choice; we have to get it right. Let us decide individually that I would do what I have to do to bring about change in Nigeria. If you do that, let me assure you, you will be called names. You will be abused; some people are hired to do that. But like Oby, say what you believe is right and stand by it,” he said.

(PHOTOS) Falling On The Runway: Top Hilarious Pictures Of Fashion Models

Model Trips and Tumbles… Lets face it no job is easy. The pictures are sad to imagine but funny at the same time.

How I Organised A N4.6 Million Robbery From My Petrol Station – Manager

Operatives of the Federal Special Anti-Robbery Squad, FSARS, Adeniji Adele, Lagos, have arrested the manager of a petrol station located in Ojokoro area of Lagos, for allegedly masterminding the robbery operation in his company where N4.6 million was carted away, last week.

Preliminary investigation by the operatives showed that the suspect, Ade Ilesanmi, allegedly connived with three members of a robbery gang to dispossess the company’s supervisor of the amount, while on her way to the bank.

The robbers, as gathered, stormed the petrol station on two motorcycles, shooting indiscriminately before snatching the money from the station’s supervisor, identified simply as Mary.

But in his confessional statement to the police, the suspect who is a graduate of English Language admitted to the crime, disclosing, however, that the robbers did not give him a dime from the loot.

According to him, “ I gave information about the money which was to be deposited in a bank to Kolabo, Fasaban and another member of the gang.  The station’s supervisor and I usually go to the bank to deposit the money. As we were about leaving, I called them. They intercepted our vehicle, shooting into the air. In the process, they injured the supervisor but they did not touch me. I never told them to injure her. I only instructed  them to take the money.

“My share of the amount was supposed to be N1.5 million. But since the operation, they never  contacted me. Now I am made to suffer all alone,” said the 33 year-old man.

Nigeria’s Entertainment Biggest Boys Kenny Ogungbe And Tony Okoroji Argue In Public Over Money

The first ever Nigerian Entertainment Conference held over the weekend at the Grand ball room of the Eko Hotel and suites, Victoria Island, Lagos. The program was almost a disaster thanks to the violent exchange
of words between Kennis Music Boss Mr. Kenny Ogungbe and Chairman of Copyright Society of Nigeria COSON, Chief Tony Okoroji.

The story is that Chief Tony Okoroji had confronted Kenny Ogungbe in the presence of journalists for daring to say in public that COSON owed him
(Kenny Ogungbe) money.

“How could he say such a thing? And in public?” Chief Okorogie shouted.

Kenny Ogungbe didn’t back down, he insisted that he would stand by his words. The two exchanged hot, abusive words and had to be separated by people around.

Kenny Ogungbe went on to say “After now, if anything happens to me, it is on your head”

The incident happened immediately after the first session of the conference where Mr. Kenny Ogungbe had been amongst a panel with Cool DJ Jimmy Jat, Sound Sultan, MI and Weird MC.

After the heated argument, both were too angry to speak further on the testy issue.

Homoséxual stabs partner to death, police arrest neighbours

The Lagos State Police Command has started investigation into the murder of a banker, Adindu Ohamara, who was stabbed to death by his suspected homoséxual lover in Akoka, Bariga Local Council Development Area  of Lagos State.

It was gathered that Ohamara lived in a three-bedroom flat with his elder sister, Flora and one Collins, an undergraduate of the University of Lagos.

According to residents, the banker  was stabbed repeatedly at his residence located at 26 Obayan Street.

We learnt that Ohamara, who was believed to be a homoséxual, was fond of bringing different men, who were also believed to be into same séx relationship, to his home.

It was learnt that trouble started  when he (Ohamara) decided to get married due to pressure from his family.

A resident, who craved anonymity, said after the banker  had his wedding introduction, a man, believed to be  also  a gay came to fight him.

He said, “A few weeks ago, Ohamara did his wedding introduction and shortly after that, one man came to the compound to fight him.There was a lot of noise over the issue and even neighbours had to come to settle the matter.

“The unidentified man complained that he had been jilted and threatened to deal with Ohamara before he left in anger.”

Our correspondent learnt that on April 9, 2013,  the banker returned home with a  man, who   allegedly stabbed  him at midnight  and left.

According to police sources, hours before the incident, Collins went to Oharama’s room where he met the stranger sitting on Oharama’s bed, discussing with him.

A domestic worker in  the house, who craved anonymity, said he saw the suspect fleeing with a laptop at midnight.

He said, “It was a Friday evening. Ohamara came home with the man and they went inside. I went to sleep but at midnight, I saw the man carrying a laptop and then he opened the gate and left. He did not run so I was not suspicious.

“Around 4am, Collins and Flora started shouting for help. A neighbour came to help them and they took him  into his Toyota Camry   and drove to a hospital.”

It was learnt that Ohamara was taken to Jonken Hospital from where he was referred to the Lagos University Teaching Hospital Idi Araba where he was confirmed dead.

The matter, it was learnt, was reported at the  Sabo Police Division but was later referred to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Yaba.

Our correspondent, who visited the house on Monday, learnt that the police later arrested all the adult occupants of the building, including the security guard identified only as Kazeem.

The policemen allegedly demanded N350,000 from each of the detained persons before they could be  released.

The landlord of the property, Yemi Oketola, said the deceased had issued him two post-dated cheques as payment for his rent.

Oketola  on  hearing of the arrest  of his other tenants,  visited the SCID and appealed to the Deputy Commissioner of Police, Damilola Adegbuyi, for their   release.

He said, “I do not live in the house but immediately I got wind of the incident, I went to the SCID and I met with the DCP in charge. I complained that a neighbour, who took Ohamara to the hospital  ,was  arrested. The DCP promised that my tenants would be released.

“When I went to see the Investigating Police Officer, he informed me that the cost of bailing each person was N350, 000. I called the DCP and he was very angry when he heard about the demand. He said he would make sure that the tenants were released.”

When contacted on the telephone, the spokesperson for the state police command, Ngozi Braide, confirmed the murder.

Braide however said she could not confirm if the deceased was a homoséxual or not.

She said, “According to information I got at the SCID Homicide unit, there are only two suspects in custody, the deceased’s sister (Flora) and the UNILAG student (Collins). I am not aware of any other arrests.

“Also, I am not aware of any N350, 000 bail because bail is free. Investigations are ongoing and we will get to the bottom of it.”

Desperate Mother Injects 14-Year-Old Daughter With Spérm In Order To Have Another Child To Raise

A woman desperate for another child forced her 14-year-old daughter to get pregnant using syringes of donor spérm, a British judge said.In a ruling reported for the first time Monday, High Court judge Peter Jackson said the mother had behaved in “a wicked and selfish way” that almost defied belief.The judge said the woman, an American divorcee living in Britain with three adopted children, hatched the plan after she was prevented from adopting a fourth.

The scheme involved getting her oldest daughter to inseminate herself with syringes of spérm purchased over the Internet from a Denmark-based company, Cryos International.Jackson said the daughter, identified only as A, “became pregnant at the mother’s request, using donor spérm bought by the mother, with the purpose of providing a fourth child for the mother to bring up as her own.”In his ruling, the judge quoted the teenager as saying said she was shocked by the suggestion, but thought, “If I do this … maybe she will love me more.”“My mum is a very determined person and she does her best not to let anything get in her way if she wants it,” the teenager added.

The judge said the mother also made the teenager use douches of vinegar or lemon and lime juice in hopes of increasing her chances of having a girl.The judge said it was likely but not certain that the daughter soon became pregnant and suffered a miscarriage.

After six more attempts with the donor spérm, she gave birth to a baby boy in July 2011, when she was 17.But midwives at the hospital became alarmed by the odd behavior of A’s mother. Her daughter wanted to breastfeed the baby, but her mother said: “We don’t want any of that attachment thing.”The hospital alerted the authorities, and the children were taken into foster care.

The mother is now serving a five-year jail term for child cruelty.Details of the case were heard during proceedings at the family division of the High Court over the children’s future last year. They were reported for the first time Monday after several British media organizations, including the publisher of The Guardian newspaper, challenged reporting restrictions.

A court order bars identifying the family members in order to protect the children.

I Smile A Lot These Days As I Cheated On My Husband And Am So Happy

 

I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I’m married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married. He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn’t stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.

Well, I have four kids and I don’t plan to be a single mother in this kind of environment so I’m staying put in my marriage but I’m done being the victim. Yes, I have started cheating on my husband. I am proud to say I have a boyfriend who I have regular, satisfying s*x with. And I have absolutely no plans of being the faithful wife ever again. Once this affair ends, I’m starting a new one. There’s no going back now. As long as he’s cheating on me, I will be cheating on me. I smile a lot these days and it’s not just Jesus putting the smile on my face. This is the happiest I have been in at least 8 years. And I also discovered that quite a number of my female friends have been cheating on their husbands for years now. Why didn’t anyone give me the memo sooner? Just thought to share my happy story. Xoxo Happy Lagos wife

Police Week: Each State Command To Get A Helicopter – Jonathan

Following the prevailing security challenges in the country and the need to reposition the Nigeria Police for better service delivery, the present administration has declared its intention to provide at least one helicopter for each of the state police commands in the country.

This was disclosed by President Goodluck Jonathan in Abuja yesterday during the commissioning of police equipment which formed part of the 2013 edition of the Police Week.

“As part of our plans to reposition the Nigeria Police Force, we must make sure that every state command has a helicopter to work with. At this period of security challenges, we must invest in air power to combat terrorism, armed robbery and other security issues,” he said.

“We have to provide what it takes to enhance police efficiency,” Jonathan said.

The president while decrying the poor maintenance culture in the country, charged the police to properly maintain all the properties in its care.

The equipments commissioned include: seven helicopters, 275 patrol vans and 17 Armoured Personnel Carriers (APC).

Earlier in his opening speech, the Inspector General of Police Mr. Mohammed Abubakar, noted that the police week celebration was a global standard practice.

Bus Driver Strips LASTMA Official Nakéd At Point Of Duty

A 35-year-old commercial bus driver, Abraham Ikujunni, has been arrested for allegedly assaulting an official of the Lagos State Traffic Management Authority and resisting arrest.

According to LASTMA authorities, the bus driver allegedly stri*ped an official, Oyeyemi Olusola, ripping his pair of trousers apart.

It was learnt that the incident occurred on Friday in Ikorodu area of the state.

It was learnt that the suspect was accosted for not wearing a seatbelt before the incident occurred.

A LASTMA official, who craved anonymity, said, “Around 8:26am on Friday, the LASTMA official apprehended the suspect around Odonguyan area of Ikorodu for not using a seatbelt.

“The official entered his vehicle and told him to park properly. He however drove the official into a street where there were commercial motorcycle riders

“The riders then supported the suspect and the LASTMA official was assaulted and his pair of trousers was torn. Fortunately, backup arrived and the suspect was arrested.”

Our correspondent sighted the suspect’s statement in LASTMA office. He denied assaulting the official, but admitted tearing his trousers.

He wrote, “My bus was faulty and I was trying to fix it when the LASTMA man accosted me. He said I should park properly so as not to obstruct the flow of traffic and I parked. He wanted to arrest me and I resisted so a struggle ensued.

“He slapped me and my shirt got torn in the process. I then engaged him in a struggle and while people were trying to separate us, his trousers got torn in the process. Please, I am also a victim.”

The LASTMA spokesperson, Bola Ajao, could not be reached for comment.

Photos: Cristiano Ronaldo Denies Cheating On Girlfriend With Miss Bum Bum Brazil

Portuguese and Real Madrid’s ace footballer Cristiano Ronaldo has refuted claims that he cheated on his girlfriend with Brazilian model, Andressa Urach.

Andressa who is the current holder of the Brazilian title “Miss Bum Bum” claimed Ronaldo called her after getting her number from a mutual friend and asked her to meet him at a hotel on Monday April 22nd where the two had s*x.

Cristiano says it’s not true and went on twitter to deny all reports:

Man Bags 45 Years Jail Term For Stealing Aregbesola’s Phone

A 31-year old man, Kelvin Igha-Ighodalo was yesterday sentenced to 45-years imprisonment without an option of fine by an Osogbo High Court for stealing a Sony Ericson phone belonging to Osun State Governor – Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola.

The convict was accused of stealing the phone during the swearing-in ceremony of the governor in 2010.
He was also said to have used the phone for fraudulent purposes by duping many unsuspecting people.

It was gathered that Igha-Ighodalo was eventually arrested and charged with six counts of conspiracy, obtaining property by false, stealing, impersonation and advance free fraud; charges to which he pleaded guilty and Justice Oyejide Falola sentenced him to 45 years imprisonment to run concurrently without an option of fine.

It was learnt that the convict had earlier served six years imprisonment at Ikoyi prisons in Lagos over a murder charge levelled against him.

According to the charge sheet, “Kelvin and others now at large on May 24th, 2011, impersonated the governor by using his phone with intent to defraud and obtained N500,000 from his royal majesty, Oba Gabriel Adekunle Aromolaran, Owa-Obokun of Ijesha land”.

The prosecution led by Mr. Biodun Badiora, told the court that the convict committed an offence contrary to section 8(c) and punishable under section 1(3) of the Advance Free Fraud and other related offences Act, 2006.

5 Ailments That Can Be Cured By Séx

According to The Daily Mail, the hypothalamus region of the brain is active during a cluster headache, and the same area shows activity during orgasm.

So, what else can séx cure? Take a look at the list below and start treating your ailments.

1. Stress
Need to relax? Look no further than the bedroom. In a Scottish study, men and women were placed in stressful situations and told to keep records of their séxual activity. People who had recorded having intercourse responded better to stress.

2. Sleeping Problems
Trouble hitting the hay? Forget counting sheep. Oxytocin, the endorphin released during orgasms, also promotes sleep.

3. High Blood Pressure
Researchers discovered that séxually active people have lower blood pressure when faced with stressful tasks.

4. Bad Mood
Not only does semen contain mood-elevating chemicals, such as endorphins and oxytocin, the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Séxuality found that séxually active people take fewer sick leaves and enjoy life more. Séx has also been shown to boost self-esteem.

5. Dull Skin
No need to apply extra bronzer. Turns out, the “séx glow” is real after all. Thanks to increased blood circulation, oxygenation of the blood, and a rush of endorphins post-orgasm, the effects of séx can do temporary wonders for your complexion.

Daniel Ademinokan Dumped Ex-Wife, Doris Simeon For Stella Damasus Over Boring S*x Life – Insider

According to an anonymous insider who claims he has lived with Daniel and Doris Ademinokan for years, the split between the couple was ignited by boring s*x life.



The man who simply identified himself as JMK said Doris didn’t take her romance with Daniel seriously and her ignorance of what her ex-hubby wanted sexually ended the relationship.
The email below was sent to Stella Dimorkus of Encomium magazine yesterday.

Read the lengthy email below;

Hello, I have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs, reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about.

I lived with daniel and doris for over 4 years so i know the facts! Not hear say or assumptions. I will even mention names that can be verified.Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just pulled with the party and the gift. Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and “insults”.

I lived with Daniel & Doris because my sister was close friends with aunty Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my parents were based in the south south part of Nigeria. I lived with them when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in Magodo GRA, Lagos.

Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the top. He would always say, “Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top”. He did everything in his power to put her her there.

Daniel cannot come and boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of Doris’ films. he can’t. He was responsible for getting the finances but it was not HIS money entirely that did films like Onitemi and Omo iya kan. The marketer named epsalum financed these films. I know that Daniel may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was almost insignificant. The only film he did with his money for her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for her….quote me or ask epsalum
Doris was a good wife in her own right. She supported her husband’s passion to change the industry. She encouraged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn’t want to get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she was the one that had a steady home with a young and successful guy…ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance.

That’s what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it all over to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. never!

For the 4 years that I lived with them, not for one day did I ever hear them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels. You would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would never hear Daniel raise his voice. never!
One thing that the world never know was how much both families never wanted them to get married. Doris’ parents didn’t like Daniel and Daniel’s mother (in particular) never liked Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother.

Now, the horrible thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his mind.

He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was one thing I hated about him. Yes he is nice, loving to his family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or decided on what he wants to do.

He went on with the marriage. His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect the woman but Doris did not trap Daniel with a baby. They were already living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as Doris did.

I think along the line Uncle Daniel started to realize that in many ways he and Aunty Doris were different. Much different than he had thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very expressive about his love, she was the opposite.

He would run around the house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a waste of time and energy. I personally experienced that with them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there. Daniel was more concerned about making his marrige very “Oyinbo-ish” because that’s who he has always been.

At some point I started to feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn’t mind.

The marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them talking in hush tones a few times about how s*x was a problem in the marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have s*x with his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost 6 months they didn’t do anything. One thing I can tell you for a fact is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris. This was a known fact and everyone knew how crazy he was about his wife but really….is lack of s*x enough to ruin a marriage?

Some people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend Alex Effiong who was there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when he was in America where his friends Bukky Ebun of Nollywood View and ‘Lamide Davies.

You can ask them because they are on Facebook. These two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she visited Nigeria. She came with Kaha the singer. That’s how I found out. He was desperate to save his marriage that’s why he took drastic steps to talk to people.

I blame Doris in some ways because she just relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good.

What annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that he didn’t even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it. He just left!
While everyone was celebrating the happy lives these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just patching things up! They kept holding on because of “What people would say”. Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it all work.

Look for people like Aliu Shorinmade who was his personal assistant for 5 years. These were the people who knew Daniel very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris Simeon’s home. That home was scattered long before Stella came into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew.

When i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger than take a dime from any woman. he is that kind of man! He will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a workaholic….I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries, Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a master at them all.

There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything…they are lying! I can open a big can of worms!
Look for Aliu and ask him to tell you about the girl Blessing that Doris brought into their house that stayed for almost 3 years. Daniel sent her away from the house over 4 times and Doris kept bringing her back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He never wanted the girl in the house, but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some point Daniel discovered that this girl was sexually abusing Daniel’s son David! What did Doris do about it???
If all the parties involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it! Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They know the truth!! There is a girl called Sunmisola that used to visit the house some weekends then. She was close to Doris…find out and Ask her too!
All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived everyone for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was bitter and sour! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their time because Stella damscus did nt ruin Doris’s marriage
Daniel and Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any of them claim I’m lying, let them challenge me.

END OF EMAIL
With all of the above allegations, hopefully Doris Simeon will come open to defend herself.
The above email speaks volume about Stella Damasus’ involvement in the whole marriage problem saga.
What would have happened if Daniel Ademinokan didn’t meet Stella at that critical moment of his life… May be he would have worked things out with his wife.

6 Things Never To Do On A First Date

If you are reading this article, it means that on some level, you are thinking about venturing back out into the world of dating after a loss, a divorce or a break up. Whether you realize it or not, this is a huge step forward and unfortunately, not enough people (possibly including you) recognize this as one of the "big moments" that it really is. You need to be very proud of yourself.

However, returning to dating (especially if you have been out of the "field" for awhile) carries with it a potential minefield of pitfalls that you will want to make sure to avoid. The following are common faux pas, blunders and missteps that many make and that you will want to steer clear of, particularly when you are in the early stages of dating someone new:

For the Ladies

Don't dress overly provocatively on the first date. I personally love to push fashion envelopes and take every opportunity to do so, but only at the appropriate time -- and when I was dating, that "appropriate time" would not be on the very first date. When choosing that super-important outfit for a first date, ask yourself, "What kind of message do I want to send?" Wearing something cute and on-trend that shows you off in a flattering way will get you sincere compliments; wearing something that reveals too much can get you into a sincere wrestling match. In other words, don't work the séxy too soon.

For the Gentlemen

Guys, I am going to share a secret with you: Women truly appreciate a man who knows how to dress. It shows that you care about what she thinks and that you care about the impression that you want to make. I realize that many of you prefer to be casual, but you do not want to be toocasual. Now, you obviously do not have to wear a suit to a coffee date at the beach, but nice jeans and a shirt on a movie date will be appreciated far more than shorts and flip-flops. Consider the venue that you are going to and use your good judgment -- we really are paying attention.

For Everyone

Don't go anywhere too "romantic": Restaurants lit only by candlelight, servers in tuxedos and strolling violinists are great -- for the tenth date. For a first date? That is way too much pressure on both you and your wallets. Keep the first date "light" -- a coffee date, a lunch date or a casual dinner are all great ideas.

Don't talk about yourself too much: There should be a comfortable conversation going on and conversing takes two people. If you feel like you are talking too much, your date likely feels the same way. Segue by saying, "That's enough about me, let's talk more about you..." and then follow with a question about them.

Don't over-imbibe: Aside from obvious drinking-and-driving concerns, too much alcohol lowers inhibitions and pretty much eliminates common sense. You don't want to say -- or do -- something that you will regret the following day. Limit yourself to two cocktails and then switch to non-alcoholic drinks.

Avoid the Biggest First-Date Taboo of Them All...

No matter how attracted you are to someone; no matter how great the date is going or how beautifully you are getting along -- do not have séx on the first date. Moreover, if someone is trying to pressure you into a séxual situation after knowing you all of two hours...run out the door (and think twice before ever going out with them again!). The only thing that a wonderful first date should lead to is a second date...not breakfast in bed the following morning.

32 Ways To Treat A Lady!

1.Whatever you do, don’t just show up at their house…they run around in their underwear just like we do.

2. Don’t cheat on them. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out.

3. Beware of every single male relative and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your Bottom at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn’t even wait for the damn hat.

4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they’re beautiful.

5. Don’t refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it’s because they’re jealous.

6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it.

7. Don’t be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they’re going out with you in the first place, it’s because they like being in your arms.

8 If you don’t sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did.

 9 If you DO sleep with them, don’t tell your friends that you did.

10You can be dirty minded in private, really…most of them are not offended by it…

11. Not all of them eat like birds, alot of them can eat like whales.

12. Most of them don’t mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you’re a Kitty-Cat.

13 Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the time!

14. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it’s not a serious relationship.

15. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you’re dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren’t dropping her off, call to be sure she’s home safely.

16. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to kick the s**t out of him.

17. If you’re talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer.

18. Never, ever slap her, even if it’s just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, “Oh, you’re so dumb” or something, never make any gestures back.

19. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn’t care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.

20. You’re dead meat if you can’t get along with their pets, parents and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.

21. Don’t flirt with their moms…that’s just freaky.

22. Don’t be freaked out by PMS. It’s not gross, and it really does make them feel like s**t, so be understanding.

23. If you don’t like the way they drive, you do it.

24. If you’re officially dating, and you’re introducing her to your friends, you’d better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend.

25. Don’t stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.

26. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.

27. Girls are fragile. Even if you’re play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.

28. Memorize their god damned birthdays. You forget her birthday and you’re basically screwed for life.

29. Don’t marinade the cologne, but smell good.

30. Don’t give her something silly for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine’s day. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful.

31. If you think the relationship isn’t going to last, don’t wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.

32. After you’ve been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, priviledge and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond.