What are good ways for women or girls to masturbate?

Answer:

In order for women to have a successful and comfortable masturbation experience, there are a few things to keep in mind. First, it is helpful to fantasize about something you find sexy in order to de-stress and become comfortable with your body. To tune in to a sexual experience, you have to first turn off the parts of your brain associated with stress and anxiety.

Many women masturbate in the same manner every time, but you will most likely have a more pleasurable experience if you frequently change the way you masturbate. You can do this by changing your body position during masturbation or using different kinds of sex toys. It is also effective to not only focus on clitoral stimulation, but other parts of the vagina and the body as well. It is important to figure out what you like best and offers you the most pleasurable experience possible.

Techniques:

Female masturbation techniques include a woman stroking or rubbing her vulva, especially her clitoris, with her indexand/or middle fingers. Sometimes one or more fingers may be inserted into the vagina to repeatedly stroke its frontal wall where the G-spot is located. Masturbation aids such as a vibrator, dildo or Ben Wa balls can also be used to stimulate the vagina and clitoris. 

 

Many women caress their breasts or stimulate a nipple with the free hand, if these are receptive areas for sexual stimulation. Anal stimulation is also enjoyed by some. Lubrication is sometimes used during masturbation, especially when penetration is involved, but this is not universal and many women find their natural lubrication sufficient.

Common positions include lying on back or face down, sitting, squatting, kneeling or standing. In a bath or shower a female may direct tap water at her clitoris and vulva. Lying face down one may use the hands, one may straddle a pillow, the corner or edge of the bed, a partner's leg or some scrunched-up clothing and "hump" the vulva and clitoris against it. Standing up a chair, the corner of an item of furniture or even a washing machine can be used to stimulate the clitoris through the labia and clothing. Some masturbate using only pressure applied to the clitoris without direct contact, for example by pressing the palm or ball of the hand against underwear or other clothing.

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Clitoral Stimulation
The clitoris has no other function than to give a woman pleasure so stop wasting the gift that is unique to us ladies.

To stimulate your clitoris you can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running water, vibrators rubbing up against an object, anything that will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure, something unique in women.

Women are very excited by stimulation of the G Spot but most women are unable to orgasm unless they receive some clitoral stimulation. Other women can not have clitoral stimulation until they are aroused, as the clitoris is so sensitive, whilst yet others just find clitoral stimulation ineffective in producing an orgasm.

Using your fingers or hand, you rub, stroke or pinch the actual clitoris, also rub the area around the clitoris. One good method is to grab the skin around the clitoris between thumb and forefinger and rub it together, and speaking from experience this works for me. The clitoris is a mini penis, although much more sensitive, so you can play with it and stroke it, just like you would a penis.

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The shower massager head can be wonderful too, a head where you can adjust the stream of water from a steady, gentle stream and then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting. Just be careful to not send strong streams of water into the vagina for a very long period of time because it can cause air embolism.
Vibrators, are great use a Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Natural Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator, or try several different ones for different days and different moods, variety is the spice of life. Hold the vibrator up against your clitoris to feel the maximum amount of vibrations, if yours is to sensitive to that, you can also hold thevibrator around the general area. If the vibrations are too strong, just put a some fine material between you and the vibrator and that will reduce the intensity.

G-Spot Stimulation
There are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and stimulate the g-spot, like the G Pulse, vibrator or try some type of dildo, I recommend a glass one as these hold lubricant and can be used hot or cold depending on your mood, it will also feel as though you are being penetrated good if you are fantasising. Although, if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all the better, most women do find it easier to use some kind of toy.

Anal Stimulation
The anus is a very sensitive area of the body, with thousands of very sensitive nerve endings. It holds a lot of tension and can be associated with a lot of misery, but when given some loving, it can take you to a higher level. Explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling the area, or insert a small anal toy use plenty of lubricant as the anus unlike the vagina does not produce its own lubrication. Always use an anal stimulator with a flared base.

Vaginal Stimulation
There's always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There are many different types of dildo's and vibrating dildos on the market. These are great for the times when you just want basic simple pleasure. These dildos come with no fancy attachments, it's just a dildo to penetrate yourself with, a substitute penis. For times like this I love to get my glass dildo out lub it and retire to the shower, unbeatable. If you want things even less complicated then just use you fingers.