If you have any doubt about your lady’s honesty, these five indicators are the ones to look out for.
Women
don't cheat if they're in a happy relationship - faithfulness is almost
hardwired into the female condition.But there is an exception.
According to the Kinsey Institute, 26% of married women cheat, or have
had extra-marital sex once before their 40th birthday. If you're
questioning her loyalty, here's what to look for.
1. She says your boep is really cute
Take
it from science, she doesn’t mean it. Adopt the following simple test:
look into her eyes as she speaks. If she hardly blinks while talking,
then flutters her eyelashes when she stops, she just lied to you. See?
Shape up man.
2. She’s not interested in her birthday
Anniversaries
of any kind are like Cup Finals to most women. But significant decade
or half-decade birthdays can trigger dangerous levels of navel-gazing,
or worse, wandering minds. At times like these, “she’ll think deeply
about her love life, and if it’s not going the way she planned, she
might jump at the chance to redress the balance with an affair”. There
are two nights when every woman wants a man in her bed: her birthday and
New Year’s Eve. Leave her solo and you’re giving her permission to
cheat.
3. She’s been promoted but plays it down
“Women
like to have projects and goals. So when she reaches a milestone in her
career, she’s likely to think: now what?” What’s more, women with fat
salaries are more likely to stray. A University of Washington study
found that those who earned upwards of R500 000 per annum were twice as
likely to cheat. Make a big deal of your other half’s achievements: she
wants to feel as highly valued by you as her employers.
4. She’s moved in with you. And it’s fine.
Fine
is not good. Fine is too comfortable. Fine means an affair could be on
the horizon. Fine is bad. Hell, it doesn’t matter if moving in was her
idea: the goalposts have shifted. As soon as you become the wallpaper in
her life, other men – at work, at the gym – become more exotic. Make it
clear that co-habiting is a starting point rather than a final
destination. And make sure you treat nights in as you might have done
date nights previously. Silent episodes in front of the TV could result
in her “interpreting this as you thinking she’s boring”.
5. She thinks you cheated first
If
she suspects you’ve played away, it’s natural for her own self-control
to be weakened. The key to keeping her close is to confess when you’ve
done wrong. Research shows that 86% of couples who discuss one partner’s
affair were still together once they’d talked it over. If you can’t be
good, be honest. And remember: women excel at revenge.
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