How To Find The G-Spot

It sounds like you both are having a great time walking down the path of sexual exploration, and it’s great you’re trying different methods. But let’s backtrack for a second in regards to the G-spot. Sometimes the pressure of searching creates performance anxiety, so make sure you both talk about how you feel during this search. Keep it fun, light and easy.

When engaging in G-spot play, one of the most common occurrences is the feeling of having to urinate when pressure is applied to the G-spot. How can you blame the body? The G-spot, urethra and bladder are all close neighbors in the same anatomical neighborhood. Many women have reported this feeling, especially near the onset of orgasm, as pressure is placed on the urethra and bladder. It’s recommended that a woman urinate before sexual interaction to empty the bladder and prevent the accidental urinary release, however unlikely that may be.

The G-spot is located about an inch inside the upper wall of the vagina and has a unique, rough texture that feels different than the rest of the vaginal muscle. It can be located with your finger or by using a speculum sideways while inside the vagina. If you want more detailed tips on locating and stimulating the G-spot, I suggest buying Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to the G-Spot.

In addition to a great curved G-spot toy, a few fingering techniques include the classic two-finger "come hither" motion, the two-finger side-to-side windshield wiper, and the ger twisting corkscrew. Good positions for G-spot stimulation include missionary style with a pillow propped beneath her back/pelvis (accentuates G-spot stimulation) as well as doggy style with her head lowered and the male entering from a high-to-low angle.