Check out the five things no single woman wants to hear below;
1. YOU’RE TOO PICKY:
Many
single women are told that they need to lower their standards and while
this may be true for some, it is still an unfair statement. There are
people with higher standards than that particular lady that are not
single. Very few people choose to be single and this statement makes it
seem like it’s their fault. While it may be well-meaning, saying this
implies that at the point the particular single friend or loved one has
reached, she is no longer allowed to be discriminating.
2. YOU DON’T DRESS WELL ENOUGH:
Single
women are told to wear more make-up and dress more attractively and
change their entire wardrobe just to attract a man. This is implying
that she should make a show of herself just to catch a man’s attention.
The bad thing about this is that it makes her seem desperate and most
men can smell desperation from very far away.
3. HIDE WHO YOU REALLY ARE:
Single
women are encouraged to pretend, just to get a man. “Don’t let him know
you have a Master’s degree”, “Don’t let him see that you have a better
car”, “Don’t voice out your opinions all the time”, “Don’t let him know
you’re smarter than him” etc. Even if a woman gets a man this way, it
can only lead to trouble because eventually the man will know all the
things she’s been hiding.
4. LET ME INTRODUCE YOU TO…:
Yes,
sometimes single women like to be introduced to men you think they’ll
like but other times it’s just downright annoying, especially when the
man in question is someone who your single friend has nothing in common
with. You mean well, yes, but sometimes it’s okay to mind your business.
5. WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE:
The
right answer to this question should be a sarcastic one; like “Oh
didn’t you hear, I’m now a nun”. However, silence would be the mature
answer.
So for all of you that have single female friends, they know you mean well but please give them a break!
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