One
of the many ways to channel the sèx hormones in both man and woman is
for couples to rediscover passionate kissing. Married couples are meant
to enjoy the touch and taste of each other’s lips. The burning sensation
is terrific especially if you eat some form of mint before kissing or
drink some minty drinks. After having sèx stay in each other’s arms
delight in the closeness you get; tell your spouse how good it feels and
how much you love him or her. When couples take time to laze around in
the afterglow of sèx, it is one of the most intimate things that bind
together.
Mates sèx hormones are well channeled when spouses become scholars of each other’s sèxual
zones. Several parts of the body have been discovered to be erogenous
zones, especially the nipples, breasts, earlobes, groins, penis and
scrotum of the man, the woman’s vulva, clitoris, ‘G spot’. Even if no
other places responded to your touches, these ones are
ever-ready-to-stimulation-sure-spots. A wife has more erogenous zones
that just her breasts and vagina. Husbands can explore with their wives,
and discover where they are most responsive. Kiss, stroke, or caress
each body part. Ask: “How does this feel? Does it make you tingle? What
would make you feel even ‘tinglier’ – if I caressed less or more?”
Remember that although it is good to work toward climax, the journey
(which is the foreplay) unbelievable climatic, and highly rewarding.
It
is very paramount for husbands to recognise and appreciate a wife’s
definition of satisfaction. “I don’t get it, “a husband told me in my
office. “ I do everything I can think of in bed, but my wife doesn’t
usually have an orgasm.” “Does that bother your wife?” I asked? “No. She
seems contented. I don’t get that either.” “That’s because many women
are still satisfied with sèx, even when they don’t have an orgasm.” This
husband stared blankly at me. “Huh?” Husbands, if you want to satisfy
your wife, shift your definition of satisfaction. Of course, wives love
to climax (who does not?), but they can enjoy the lovemaking experience
even when they do not reach that place. Many women enjoy the sensuality
of cuddling, talking, kissing, and touching every bit as much as they
enjoy the thrill of a climax. Women’s sèxual pleasure occurs on many
levels other than simply orgasm.
At
this point, I would also want husbands to know, admit, and value their
sèxual peaks. Most men reach their sèxual peak in their late twenties or
early thirties. This however does not mean than they are not potent at
any age; infact science has it that at 70 years upwards, 70 per cent of
men are still very potent. Most women reach theirs a decade or more
later. Often when a woman is in her forties and fifties, her sèxual
desire becomes stronger, sometimes insatiable, especially when she is
not in her child bearing age. Moreover, as a man ages, his emotional
side increases. This explain why many older husbands spend more time in
foreplay and romance. When couples channel their sèx hormones properly,
they will, through each stage, grow and learn more about each other and
become more patient and sensitive to each other’s needs. This allows a
couple’s sèx life greater longevity and duration.
Until
couples recognise the different kinds of sèx, they could waste their
sèx hormones. Mistakenly, couples feel the pressure to have a “perfect”
sèx – complete with earthquake, fireworks and multiple orgasms. But it
is not every time you have sèx that there will be an “earthquake;”as
long as you are both connecting, that is perfect sèx. Sometimes, sèx
will be a quickie to meet the need of the moment. Sometimes, it could be
functional sèx, or just sèx. Sometimes, when you are not in the mood,
you could have it simply because your spouse needs you at that moment.
Sometimes, it may be comfort sèx, the type you can find is in the arms
of your spouse as a friend and lover. You will be channelling the sèx
hormones rightly when you understand that the different kinds of sèx
point to the ultimate reason for sèx: promoting the bond of oneness in
the relationship. The goal is not whether you end with a climax. The
goal is that you are connecting as a couple. If you think you are going
to have a quickie and your spouse is expecting a long, passionate
encounter, both of you will probably end up frustrated. So therefore
clarify your expectations. Women need to prepare mentally for sèx. If a
wife knows she is headed for quickie sèx, she can mentally prepare for
that, including the realisation that she may not climax.
Keep
practising enthusiastically! sèx stirs the craving for more sèx.
Lovemaking elevates the brain chemicals associated with desire.
Therefore, as couples decide to have sèx and find they enjoy their time
of lovemaking, their libidos increase. This often leads to an increased
yearning to have sèx more often. And of cause this helps to fight weak,
quick, and premature ejaculation. What could be more fun and exciting
than that?
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